Re BMI, I ran my height, age and weight through a calculator on the internet, and it said 81% of men with those measures weigh more than me. So that's good, I think. Looking better helps counter the self-image problems inherent in being told I'm not attractive, at least a little.


Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)