Clarification: My H and the OW are starting a business. He goes over to her house and cooks, never spends the night. They post pictures of what they are creating on instagram.
From everything I have been able to find out, the OW is happily married and her h is friendly with my H.
I consider her an OW because he spends so much time with her and it looks like he gets the emotional boost from her that he should get from me.
Based on the above, is she really considered an OW?


H: 48
W: 41
M: 12
D: 10
1st DB: 3/15/16
2nd DB/S: 4/2/16 - H moved out of bedroom
False Reconciliation: 7/17/16 - H moved back into bedroom