Andrew, you and CT are right on. Regardless of what the truth is, I should be treating her AS IF she's doing it until she proves otherwise.

I'm wondering if I even need to see a "limited contact" email or if I should just do it. And when she asks about it the next time she drops him off, just say I think I need to start treating you like we're separated and that we contact too much when S is at home?

Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.