Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 2)

[ForGump]

Dude, 30 lbs is yuuuuge. Kudos to you. Are you @ a good BMI now?

I got hit by the "LBS diet" for a while but I'm eating again. Started running more consistently, because it's easy to squeeze in a 10-, 20- or 30-minute run in the evening; whereas my usual outdoor activities take me away from my kids for too long right now. I just can't get myself to be away from my kids for that long right now, except for work.

My IC also think my W is not good for me. "Why did you choose her? I hope the next person you choose will be nicer to you." And "you need to stop being a doormat to someone who appears to be stuck in adolescence."

She also believes that kids will be OK through/after the D. I want to talk to her more at depth about this. I hope she's right, because at this point I don't expect D to be the outcome.