So I thank you to all who have taught and continue to teach me many life lessons on how to be a part of a successful relationship.
In order to save your marriage you must be able to have a good relationship and be able to build that from the ground up. Learning about pursuit and distance, needs, love languages, detachment, boundaries, trust are all basic tools that you can learn here.
As long as both partners are ALL IN and trying to build their relationship, I see nothing wrong with what gets posted here.