Originally Posted By: AndrewP
Originally Posted By: RSG
The reason I believe the A has ended is not only the early July breakdown, but the way she talks to and treats me. It's getting better, softer, more respectful.


RSG - Sorry to throw cold water on this but I had the same belief for the same reasons and was very very wrong. You might be right but without her actually saying it's over and being transparent you could also be wrong.


RSG - I gotta back up Andrew P on this one. My S went down end of Feb. By May, she was telling me things like "I enjoy being single" "free of relationships", spoke about him in past tense. Also the attention towards me went up, asked me on dates, made long term plans. I thought it was done, but then in late June she brought him up while her & I were having wine one night and in just one of her sentences she slipped, she us the word "is" to describe him and not "was". I caught and my suspicion grew from there until a week later when I found out dude and her were still on. Now, possible she did eject for a bit and then restart - I have not cared enough to ask.


"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies.
BD: Feb '16
D: Mar '17
Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing.
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