Are you seeing an IC, by the way? If so, has it been helpful? What is your IC's overall guidance, and how does it compare to what you're getting here in the forum? Also, what is gender and approximate age range of your IC?
I've tried a few different IC's and found one that I like. She's a woman who is approximately in the same age range as my W, and has similar economic/cultural background (white collar middle-class American). It's hard to know for sure I picked the best one, but she feels helpful so far.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
