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[lfm]

Totally agree with you Sandi, and don't plan on participating in any additonal conversations with her about the OM, and have told her as such. Basically that I can no longer be her friend that she goes to vent to. I'll be there if something is going on with the kids, or if something comes up with the house or one of the cars (since we have teenage drivers) otherwise that is all I can be at this point.

As far as your note about not being sure what I mean about her venting, she has basically told me everthing, the good, the bad, the intimate details, all of it. I was definitely falling into the trap of thinking that if I be her friend and listen to what she is saying that she'll see that I am there for her, but that clearly has not worked and I'm ready to move on, so no more discussions about anything having to do with OM.

Thanks!