wife of 14 years walks out on her family

[Raul]

UPDATE:
I changed my cell phone number 2 days ago. I have not called or text her since then. I was starting up again texting her to come back home at 2 am and how we miss her. Of course she never reply to my text nor does she ever answer my phone calls. Instead I set up a house phone with voicemail so she can call our daughters or my daughters can call her too. I decided to go dark and I believe this is how, for me, would be the best way. I no longer have the urge to see if she text me. And when she did, it was to remind me to do this or that...or she did not like how I brushed my daughter's hair...or the clothing where they look like "welfare kids." And a few on how I disappoint her. So no more texts from her. Of course my daughters' school have my new number. WW also has my work number and email. So she can get a hold of me in need of an emergency.

I know I have been told here many times by many wonderful people of the mistakes that I know I have been doing. One of them is when I keep giving WW the keys to the house. I changed the door locks 3 times since she left but I continue to make her a key. I decided that I think I will do so again. I wanted her to see how we are making our living without happen. Her biggest complaint was that I had a mess in the garage and that we (daughters) always made a mess around the house and never picked up after ourselves. Which I can say yes to that. But for the last 3 months, our house has been spotless and clean. She has complimented how clean the house has been...but then she goes into the garage. So this Saturday, the garage will be cleaned out! So I will let her come over a few more days so she can see the garage clean. Then I will change the locks for good.

What really bothered me this morning is that I wanted to dry some clothes. I opened the dryer and her clothes were in there. I got nosy. I went through and saw many sexy panties. New panties that I have not seen, but obviously she has wore. So what came to my mind is her saying...."I had sex in these panties with my lover and went to my husband's house to wash them". I'm changing the locks next week. Another issue with her coming over is her dressing sexy. I have a front door camera that takes pictures of people that step up to my door and sends me the pictures to my phone. I was so upset to see the pictures of her coming to my house with her flaunting her breast out and looking sexy. So, i don't think it's a good idea for her to come over if it will continue to get me so upset. Another issue she does is taking stuff from the house. I told her that whatever is in the house, it stays.