So today I contacted my W because I needed to let her know our dogs vet was looking to speak with her about our dog that is sick.
I simply said "The vet called for you"
And I got this whole story back about how she thought she told them to change the number but they must not have and thanks and I'll call them back.
So I just didn't respond to that.
About 10 minutes later she texts me again this whole thing about how she's so screwed over on her car (because we lease) and she's going to be over on her miles because she's been commuting and she can't afford to live anywhere that she has to pay rent and she can't afford the payment on the car if she buys it. and she just has no options.

So I waited for a few more minutes and responded with "wow I'm sorry, that must be very frustrating"

I hope that was good for validating her. Because in my head I was like "this is not my problem." She did get the choose between our 2 cars which one she wanted to take when she left and she took that one. She had to know she would go over her miles and she still has a year left on her lease... I do feel bad for her on some level, like I know that's a crappy situation but at the same time I feel like "you made your bed"

I just hope I responded okay because Ireally wasn't sure what else I could say to that.


W:32 M:26
T:5 yrs M: 3 yr
BD: JUN 2016
W Moved out: early JUL 2016
W Filed for D: mid JUL 2016
EA: 06/16?
PA: 07/16
Moved in w/ ow: 07/16
D final: 10/16