Thanks for explaining. I was missing the history piece.

We are also piecing, and one of the things that has been helpful ifor us is to realize that it's OK for us to function socially as individuals, but we don't have a history that makes that problematic.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16