W still at home, how to proceed?

[Rose888]

Me and W go out with some friends last night, but I have work in the morning so we say were not going to stay out late. Of course the time comes and and one of her friends shows up late so she wants to stay. Ok, that's fine we will stay out a little later. Then it is really late and it's time to go. I tell her we need to go and she tells me to go ahead and go home and she will get a ride home. I give her another chance to rethink that idea, but no she wants to stay and play pool. We are trying to "work things out" but youre not going to go home with your man that has been showing you so much love and compassion lately?
...I go home and move her pillow to the couch. I'm not going to stand for this crap. She still wants to go out on her own and pretend to be working on things with me? Nope.
When she gets home she wakes me up to try to fight with me and tell me how horrible I am for putting her on the couch. I don't remember much of what she was said, since I was half asleep with alcohol in my system, but it was clear she wasn't happy. I didn't buy into the fight, and just went back to sleep.

I have a hard time remembering the details of everyone's sitch. Is or was your wife having an affair?

In the absence of a situation that requires extra transparency and monitoring, I don't see that she did anything wrong except waking you up to fight instead of just crawling into bed.