Thanks man. "This stuff is really hard" got me again, I laughed out loud.
I seem to be bouncing between soft and hard approach. That has mostly depended upon what I feel I have the energy for. I seem to get some results either way that I do not consider to be negative. My WAW ( I guess, now? I'll go w/ that) has never been negative or aggressive at me. Rebellious? I don't think so, I mean, unless having an A falls in there; but she has not refused to pick up kid or pay bills type stuff.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6