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[Cherry]

I love that mentality!! That's a great way to put it! Good for you!

It is hard, even at times when I see my h looking downcast. The other day when I left s with him. He looked at me with sad eyes. And I must admit he looked kind of pathetic, and it made me feel like I wanted to hug him and comfort him. But the fact was, that would be what I wanted. Not him. And if he looked down- that's merely because of the chaos that he has brought upon us.

I hope you and d have a great holiday. Just really focus on the two of you having a fantastic time- savour every minute and relax the best you can you've got this!