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[Coly23]

Thanks for stopping by Cherry. I'm going to use my holiday to really focus on detaching and like you say not letting his actions effect me or hoping my actions will have any effect on him. He has defo been cake eating and has enjoyed every slice but no more! The dessert trolley is closed for business!!

However, I wish I didn't see him yesterday, he threw me a bit as I didn't expect him to come to the door. He looked much calmer and like my old H and I had to use every once of my will to not throw my arms around him. D thought I was a bit off-ish with him but I just wasn't prepared to face him and at the end if the day I am allowed to be a little like this seeing as he has left me! I can do this....