Well the separation agreement will be finished on the 19th...have put in no overnight clause in unless married to limit the exposure of D's to other people by md and W both. The lawyer thought is common but W feelings I'm sure will be different, as she already has OM. All this is hitting home now... So many changes all at once it's hard to adjust. Think my struggle is with the family has been my purpose , although it's still there somewhat ... It's different. Being in a smallish town and not able to get very far from her and om doesn't help either. The kids are having some difficulties. Since W is off for summer (job allows) it's been hard to compete with her ease of doing things and me having to work. The D's are home with my which they aren't as close to as mil. Still just some adjusting is neede , just hope it all works out.


Me:47 XW 43
D15 D10
Together 17 married 15
Bd : Mother's Day 2015
Sep :July 2015
Divorce final October 2016