Hello all, feels like a lifetime since I've been on here so I thought I stop by with an update.

I suppose the biggest one is the fact that for me there is no going back with my W, things have happened that I just could not get passed. It has come to light that she has been a very active user of Tinder for a while now (couple of months) and has been using it for meaningless hook ups with guys.

Despite this things are going very well and I'm in a great place. Driving is going strong, I'm in the final round of an intense selection process for a new job, I am getting the absolute most out of the time I have with my D5 and generally loving and living life.

I know this process hasn't ended up how I or many others would have hoped for but I have learnt so much from it. I can see my failings in our M, I can identify how I changed in to a man I'm not particularly fond of and worst of all how I took my children for granted.

Onwards and upwards I suppose.