Coly, it sounds like you are getting to a good place. Glad to hear you are doing things for you and not giving into the feeling that if we talk to them or do something for them we can change their mind.

It is counter intuitive and it is hard at the time. All our natural feelings want us to communicate with them, or do things for them. But this just enables cake eating. I feel like you at the moment, I just feel like avoiding him and avoiding any q's or any way that they can hurt us.

You sound like you are onto this and taking control, good for you!

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Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
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Baby due 3/17
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