Hi Altair, thanks for visiting my thread and I am sorry that you are here. I will pop over to yours and read up on your sitch.

As you can see it's only been around 3 months but it feels like a lifetime already! I've had quite a few 2x4's already because I don't seem to get it but I think it is slowly getting into my thick skull that H isn't going to want to come back if he isn't being given the opportunity to miss me and our family life. Although I realise I still have a long way to go...

Everyone is great here and will give you lots of support and advice. See you over on your sich shortly but just off to the local spa for some treatments before my hols.... :0)


Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')