Hey surfer, I appreciate your views. I have my faults but I was not a nag, criticizer, or anything but the nice girl... boring, predictable, emotionally intense, good mom, too much care taking and fixing. I think sometimes my behaviour reminds him of his mom. He was victim of incest from brother. It's all coming to a head and he's sought help just last week. He once said he'd have left me long ago if I hadn't been so Damn nice. I did feel blindsided lately yet all this has been going on five years. My denial lifted a mere three weeks ago.
Me54 WH48 S18 D16 M 22 T 24 EA-PA-EA 2011-2015 Separated 10/14 - 06/15 BD1 02/14 BD2 05/16 BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again Working on me and liking me again
