OK, some updates, I hope not too long… I went to the vacation home with my sister and her son and we had a great time. My Mexican GF’s family was visiting, so we were invited to the parties. Speaking about that “Mexican time”, LOL… There was nothing on schedule… ever… we just had to go with the flow… On one of the nights we were invited for a Posole soup… Well, it was ready at about 9:30… I and my sister were totally fine with it. My nephew was anxious, hahaha!

Unfortunately, I didn’t get the possession of my new condo… There is some delay with the paper work from the seller. I kind of expected it… Well… it is Mexico… lots of bureaucracy and weird laws… I’m a bit annoyed with my mutual friends because of that though. But, what can I do… I have to wait a bit longer.

Some GAL updates besides the trip to the vacation home, if I can remember everything, LOL. A couple of happy hours with people from work. Then I flew to the city where my other friends live, who also have a house at the vacation home place, and where my mutual friends were visiting. It was this past weekend. There were also a lot of people I know who normally come to visit to the vacation home place and some relatives of my mutual friends who came from another country. We had a lot of fun! And also, my mutual friends and I did all the necessary paper work to register my old car to their names. Whew!!! What a relief, finally!

On H’s front… While I was at the vacation home, he was trying to contact me (call, text) on my phone, which was off, because it doesn’t have coverage in Mexico. I had my work phone, but obviously he didn’t know that. So, he called our male friend, and he came over to the condo to tell me that H needed something from me. What H needed was the website for online mortgage payment for the condo. Right! He waited until the last day of the month to do that. I gave him the website and all the info. He even called me (I turned my phone on to text him) to ask a security question the website was requiring.

Then, one day before my trip last weekend he texted me in a very nice manner asking me if I could find a car rental deal for him… Because he could not find a good price, and I was always the one to do the “Magic”, LOL. He was going to the East coast for the weekend. I replied “Sure, I can see what I can do”. I ended up reserving a car rental for him… After some nicest texts exchange, hahaha. I kind of jokingly asked him what kind of “fun” was going on in that place… He didn’t reply to that. Oh well… There must be something comforting to him in asking me to help him with the rental, but not telling me all the details of the trip. I’m just curious, if I’m still that evil person in his life and the cause of his unhappiness, would he pay a little bit more money for the rental, instead of “dealing” with me? I’m sure there is an explanation to that… But… I just don’t put too much thought into it anymore. I did a favor for him, because I could… and I felt like it (I do it for my other friends too sometimes), and I just put it aside as nothing special.

I have lots of house work to do this weekend. That’ where I’m missing H… We were always a great team in doing all that house stuff. Oh well… I can do it! Or hire somebody… Which is kind of tough right now, since I invested all the money in the new condo.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state