There seems to be a lot lost in translation online. I've been a part of that as well. If we were hanging out and chatting it would be much easier. But we do our best with the venue we have.

I don't feel I'm being judgmental because I'm not jumping on your threads and suggesting you need to change your outlooks, life views, or analyze you. I don't speak with you as if I have some knowledge you don't or that my views are healthy and yours are out of balance in some way. The only judgment I see is coming towards me. I'm not really sure what you want from me. It would be nice if you were ok with me as I am, but if not it's a big world and we all have our place in it.

I have no worries about who I am. I know who I am and am proud of it. I pass the mirror test every day. And I have no worries about how you two live your lives. You are both top notch and are amazing people, and both of you pass your own mirror test as well. Kudos.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15