Well, 3 times. 3 times she has now come into the house and searched through things without asking. I have made it clear that I don't appreciate her doing that, and she did it again. She said she was bringing S "straight home" and I said fine. Made no mention of picking up her clothes. I say bye, go upstairs to change clothes and see my closet has been picked through as her winter clothes were there.
It's not the STUFF, it's going through the house without asking! All she had to do was say "Can I pickup my clothes today when I dropoff S?" Obvious yes, as I have no need for a 5'10 woman's winter clothing and she finally has the space to hang them up. I made it clear again, and tried to validate that they are her clothes, for her place, but she went through the house without asking after I said please don't!
Ugh. I let her keep a key because there are times where she may need to bring him home before I get there. She tried to explain it away as "I was there, it just made sense" but I reiterated that I'm not comfortable with you going through my house please ask. She just said Got it, night. I said thank you, night.
Sandi, you are so right. They push and push and push and push. I still haven't gotten ALL of the respect back obviously!
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
