Mediocre mom. Yes I use it a lot. It feels like more of a phase than anything. From Jan through about early July, her Mom instincts went in the toilet. She would come home on weekdays, drop him off, then come home for bedtime....to sit next to me while I put him down and she played on the phone. Weekends? Excuse after excuse to leave, while we played.
It's getting much better though, I see it and hear it and it makes me happy for S.

Our schedules stink. She has to be in by 7, and based on where she lives has to leave at 6. The earliest preschool takes kids is 6:30, so I'm able to drop him off while she picks him up around 3 or so and drops him off with me.

No, this is not a long term thing. I know I need to decrease communication soon for my own health, and will probably update my proposed email to the board tonight.

Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.