I'm sorry that your marriage has crumbled, but I'm glad that you sound strong and the LBS fog is clearing.
If it weren't for my IC, I'd probably still be feeling my way through the fog. I don't see her regularly anymore, but she was a key component of my recovery from the shellacking my WW gave me.
Good luck going forward. You've changed a lot in a short amount of time and you're going to be just fine.
