Sandi -- this really paints a bleak picture, at least to me. The message seems to be: treat your WW like a four year old, using the old reverse psychology trick that stopped working on most sentient beings about the time they learned to use the potty on their own.
I get it if the goal is to maybe give the WW slight pause, or even if your goal is a one-off roll in the hay, but getting back an ongoing, adult relationship? It's just hard to believe the answer is really the same answer it was when our kids were being naughty in the department store.
Come to think of it, though, I'm not sure most WW's behave a whole lot more maturely . . .
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)