Congratulations on the move to your new home. You've had some stressful days, but you managed to get everything done and now you can relax and enjoy your new place.
You've got a lot of plans for the week that will keep you busy, but you also will be spending some time w/family and friends. Maybe the hot plate has a short in it and you will need to toss it out rather than try to fix it.
Now that your xh's name is off the joint account, you can close it out when you get the chance. I'm sure you'll be happy to get that final thing over and done with.
What a privilege and honor to be asked to become a trainee facilitator for the next divorce group session. You will be a valuable asset to the group w/the knowledge that you have on the subject.
As for the NG, he'll be touch again very soon.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.