Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #2]

[ForGump]

Coly23, I appreciate your note. Every little support & encouragement helps.

I wish I had your strength to carry on with all GAL activities, at the moment I'm struggling with it all and instead of it getting better I think I'm getting worse ...

I don't think my GAL has been all that great. I just take more time to do little things -- going for a run or playing music or running a small errand for myself. I'm just initiate for myself more, and do it more frequently. Though they are little things, I just think about what *I* want to do, rather than thinking about what W might want me/us to do. I have been trying to set up some bigger GAL outings, but hasn't quite worked out due to the schedules of my friends.

Still working on it... (but seriously, I don't expect my W to be affected much by this. It's for my own mental health.)