Hi Gump, sounds like your GAL activities are working for you!
When you say hell will break lose... Do in think she is just looking at the legal/paperwork side and not what this will actually mean to you as people/couple/family?
Yes, GAL is working for me, but it ain't doin nothin for the marriage. (But the old marriage is dead, anyway, right?).
Re: hell breaking loose ... I don't think she has a realistic view of the consequences of a D on her/our finances, our daily schedules, and on our kids' mental/emotional health. Right now, she is in a heavy fog, created by the need to jettison the source of her unhappiness (me), and find the next guy(s) who will bring her excitement and happiness.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
