Another thought re happy. He says that he cannot find a fault with me, he just feels unhappy and sometimes feels he doesn't want to be married, and he doesn't want to hurt me or make me unhappy.
Interesting.
If it's any consolation Cherry - my WW has said the same sort of thing. I like to think it's because I always treated her with love and respect. Not sure how good of DBing that is, but it made me feel good about myself and being true to my own values.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells