EDF, sorry to say it would come off as controlling and she may either agree and resent it or agree and send species and still do what she wants. No win here. At least there may be a chance of building some trust with just wishing her a great weekend. Hard to do, been there and cried that, but I got a happier WH and better convo and connection than I thot I would. Truth is if they want to cheat, they will. I've had to let go of that, hard as it is. I'm not 100% there yet and I continue to work on it daily and try not to borrow trouble by anticipating it.
Me54 WH48 S18 D16 M 22 T 24 EA-PA-EA 2011-2015 Separated 10/14 - 06/15 BD1 02/14 BD2 05/16 BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again Working on me and liking me again
