Detaching.....nearly there..

[Cherry]

Thanks for that sandi. I'd like to think there is no nagging or spewing on my part. I barely see or speak to him so that kinda helps. The thing that rings out to me there is a few days after he said he wanted a d, we took s out, and he said to his mom- she looks so unhappy, I just want to see her happy. At the time I thought what a jerk, how does he think I'll be happy after what he has just said.

Another thought re happy. He says that he cannot find a fault with me, he just feels unhappy and sometimes feels he doesn't want to be married, and he doesn't want to hurt me or make me unhappy.

Interesting.