on the Tatoo. I agree with ForGump. If you get it now and things work out later it will be a constant reminder of bad times. You don't want that. Wait for good times so it is a constant positive reminder.
Tattoos are tricky. I have one that I custom designed for myself of a "true love knot" around my right wrist that was done about 4 years ago. I see it all the time and some days it really hurts to look at it. In some of our few talks W would stare at it when she speaks.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells