Hey rich4j and Fogg,

Thanks for checking in.

Things have been going ok. I had a good visit with my sister. She understood my hesitation to get back into the whole family thing and I am only contacting a few right now. That's all I think I can handle right now.

I am going forward with buying the house and its stressful.

My W now knows that I have contacted my old guy friend and he and I went out metal detecting, a new GAL for me.
He met me at my kids soccer and she saw him there. Feels good not to hide it. I can talk to who I want now. He was shocked we still go to kids soccer at the same time. He did not want to be there with her there.

I am cutting my expenses as I am finding money tight as I settle in at the new place. Going to put a budget in place. This is just the growing pains of starting out again.

So one day at a time.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016