From your thread #4:

Originally Posted By: RSG
I'm still thinking about getting my own tattoo.


I think it's wise to think on it for a while. I had a relative go through a D, never thought of him as a tattoo type of guy but he got exactly the kind of tattoo you're talking about during the long and ugly D process.

And now that I'm going through it, I'm getting the same impulse, same type of design.

That makes me think that although this time is definitely a big milestone for us, it is likely something that will pass. So you might consider waiting until you're past these difficult times, then get a tat just for yourself, not because you're being put through the wringer right now.

Just my two cents...


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final