Seeing the reality in real time technicolor is confusing. You are trying to process things in a different way now and that takes a lot of dedication mentally, physically and emotionally.
As I keep moving through life seeing friends and acquaintances dealing with midlife transitions it seems like those without real time technicolor vision are much more vulnerable. Even if they or their spouses are not in crisis those folks are definitely at risk.
You know the people you run across that do not age well... The bitter, the perpetually sad and hopeless. The people who are unable to embrace the sweetness in their world because of some bitter experience. I am sad for them and wish that they could be brave enough to confront the world in real time technicolor because that is where jaw dropping beauty resides.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou
