thanks EDF,

I actually responded with something very very similar

Me- trying to decide what's best, focusing on R with D.

W- Got it.

I like what you said here - "let her continue to wonder about whether you are now the one walking away from her"

thank you!

Me(W): 29 EXW: 30
T: 6 M: 2
SD: 10
BD: 04/2016
PS: 04/2016
W officially "seeing" someone 09/2016
W filed 03/2017
Officially Divorced 11/2017