Need advice. previously when my W "didn't know" and was "Confused" we talked, I told her we could remain friends while she decided M or D, in last week's email she made it clear it was time to move on, and she told me I was showing her I was incapable of being "friends" thus finalizing her decision.

spoke to a DB coach, the book, and from being on here, I went dim.

Had a few temp checks, bills, D, animals, etc, today she texted
W - I have a ?
Me - ask
W - you don't even really want to be friends, do you?

of course I don't, I want to be MARRIED!

at a loss as to what to say to this. need help.


Me(W): 29 EXW: 30
T: 6 M: 2
SD: 10
BD: 04/2016
PS: 04/2016
W officially "seeing" someone 09/2016
W filed 03/2017
Officially Divorced 11/2017