Not sure where to go from here

[rich4j]

So I try to break my feelings down into buckets and see what I can do with each of those and which one is "winning". I agree its like a new relationship so you will need to peel back some of these feelings probably to get the love back if you can.

I see there is a huge trust issue. So maybe its a huge topic you start with that you have to discuss with him to get over the hump withthis. For me, trust is a cornerstone of a relationship and I can't do without it. If you can't turn the corner on this one....then....

Anger/resentment-that may take some time but you have the right to be angry. As some have recommended I would definitely hit counseling together so they can help you break down these things and address each with each other very openly.

Love- well....that will take some time to see if you can get that feeling back. Only you can decide if its worth the emotional investment to overcome the past and start new