Hi SH, just wondering how your reflections were going and if IC helped. It is good to see you sharing your insights and learnings with others.

Best wishes

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together