What I found is this. Your family and friends love you. They just want to support you and they want you to be happy. I think - and this is just my experience - after a while they decide that the marriage is over, and in order for you to be happy they want you to move on. At which point, they switch from supporting your DB efforts to get your ex back - to actively hating your ex and wanting you to accept the D and move on with your life as quickly as possible, as this is the quickest path for you to be happy again, even though it [censored].
So don't be mad at your family, they just love you and want you to be happy. The problem is - it's not their marriage that's falling apart, it's not their family that is being broken, or their kids that are being hurt. Right now I have to DB almost in secret, my family will not support it and they just want me to accept it and move on. This is common, noone will understand it. But everyone on here is going through the same thing and we support your courage to fight for your marriage. It [censored] but that's probably your situation.
Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16
