Albac broken but pushing forward

[albac]

Gunp,

It is not really how I see it but when I think about it I don't want our D getting use to how things are now because it is all a false reality IF my W got re married or even moved in with another man there would be absoloutely NO family time again. And I can see that.

Having a family dinner is exactly the same. It's what A family does and we are not so pretending to be one now for whatever reason is flat out cake eating on her part and again o can see that now.

The thing is I am sure that at any point in the future we can be friends as long as I'm not abusive or a terrible father which I am neither.

People need to start seeing things longer term, if my W re marries and starts a new family or I do WE WILL NOT BE FRIENDS nor wil we ever spend time as a family ever again and I need her to understand that because right now she is leading her single life seeing others and thinks I will be there for her no matter what. She's wrong