Bigybiz,
I have somewhat started. That's why I have not been here to often. She called me a hoarder in front of my girls- which I think it exaggerated.

But yes, she complained about three drawers in the kitchen that I took over with a lot of electronics. It is done, cleaned out!

The garage, it is still a work in progress. I have somewhat took baby steps. But you are right bro, it will take a day to do it. I just have to do it.

Regarding the backyard... I am so disappointed, I let it die. My grass is yellow now. It was my pride and joy and she always complimented my maintenance. But you are right, do it for myself. So I can look outside for once without thinking how I let it go.

Thank you for the pep talk.


Me: 42
Her: 39
Kids: 2
ILYBNILWY: 5/17/2016
D-Day: 5/17/2016
Verified OM: 5/17/2016
Verified she told OM ILY: 5/21/2016
Moved Out: 5/19/2016