wife of 14 years walks out on her family

[Raul]

If she files, then she files and there's not a d@mned thing you can do about it. But you only have to give up when YOU decide that you are giving up. In the mean time be the best Raul you can first for yourself, then for your 2 D and if she ever turns to look at you for W. And yes - it's very hard - especially since like me you turn to jelly at even the hint of a smile. [/quote]

Thanks AndrewP. I like the way you worded it.