Is anyone having issues with family members outside the home? Like mom, sister, brother, ect?
I just got off the phone with my sister. Evidently I hurt our mom's feelings (unintentionally). She sided with mom, ditched on a concert we were supposed to go to together tonight. Now I feel ganged up on, and lonely. Even more so than usual.
They both want me to give up on my marriage. When I called my mom crying Saturday she said, "Maybe he just really doesn't want to work on the marriage." To which I yelled, "F*** YOU!" and hung up the phone.
Yes. They are right. He doesn't want to work on it right now. He wants a bachelor life and date his 21 AP. But I'm trying to keep it together and doing all the work and hoping for the both of us and the last thing I want is for my most closest family members to break me down further.
I am noticing that I'm having more anger issues. I've been waiting for those. And I'm sure I say things that rub people the wrong way. But can't we expect love and patience from our own direct family members? I guess not.
