OMG the "we can still be friends" thing is killing me. No matter how many times, in how many ways I say it it's like she just doesn't get it.

But to me that's like ultimate cake eating.... no if you don't want to be with me then you don't get to just keep me around for all the other things that went with our M... I don't know how to make it more clear.

That's why in that email I made it clear that if we go down this path and this is finalized we will be going separate ways and I will be moving forward with my life WITHOUT her. Hopefully she gets it this time.

W:32 M:26
T:5 yrs M: 3 yr
BD: JUN 2016
W Moved out: early JUL 2016
W Filed for D: mid JUL 2016
EA: 06/16?
PA: 07/16
Moved in w/ ow: 07/16
D final: 10/16