A new day is approaching

[Irish M]

I think your situation will improve a lot at some point.

Hi Cld
I don't think at all about my situation with her. I think about me and my girls and our happiness.

As for your wife, some of the MLCers begin to contact their former spouses once the divorce is final. Why? Because the pressure is off of them to come back into the relationship. Also, they want to be able to say that even though you are divorced, you can be friends and it makes them look good in the eyes of the world.

Generally, MLCers do not come right out and apologize. They tend to skirt around the apology and talk about having regrets, etc.

Hi Job :-)

I believe this is happening as well. I didn't expect it a day after the notary papers were signed. She is trying the guilt trip and the be nice tactics. I will not fall for either. I won't be the lighthouse either since she is still with OM. I will continue the best path for me.. and my girls of course.

Hey Mirage, It's been a long time. Thanks for the support.

Got home from work and opened my personal email. XW hasn't written to that email address in a long long time. There's a message from her talking about a vaccine for teenage girls ( i am already on this )

What really made me mad was .."hope your injury wasn't too severe and i wish you a speedy recovery".

I did post a pic of my new boot as a cast yesterday morning. All in private. My Facebook has been turned off to anyone outside my friends.

I do have some friends that were XW's. It makes me mad that she would have them spy on my page for her. They say MLC'r watch us from afar. Park outside our houses and ask about us. I will have nothing to do with that.

I asked her who told her. She replies a friend and she doesn't have to tell me.

I mention 2 names and she replies.. you are sick, you need help...


so it went from pity me, be my friend to I'm sick.

not sure if I reply or not at all this point. lol

Irish