I am glad you are doing better qt4. And yes, society is very much f***ed up here in America. It is not normal or modern to get divorced and it's not a positive thing to do, it's totally f***ed up. Don't give up qt4, don't accept it, fight for it, do everything that you can to stop it. Your kids will be thankful to you someday if you succeed or not. Imagine if Steve Job, after being fired by Apple, just started a different career as a plumber......Instead he didn't gave up and continued where he left. Quitters never win, never! That's the main difference between winners and losers, winners never quit.