Maybs - Pt2

[maybs]

I'm not sure if you read my original thread. I think the link is at the beginning of this one... but basically she asked me to go to MC 8 weeks ago and before we even got to our first appointment did an about face and wanted a divorce. I suspect by this time she had met other "woman". (I use quotes because she's like 19 and still acts very childish and insecure)
When I confronted her a couple weeks later she lied to my face I called her out. We went to work I came home and she was packing up her sh!t and moving out and wasn't going to say a word to me.

Around that time is when I found this place and started reading other people's stories and eventually signed up and read the DR book.

At this point I'm not sure what else I can realistically do. I have said before I'm a very intuitive person and I knew something was wrong a couple days leading up to the BD but didn't think it was that. I knew there was someone else and looked into it and I was right.

Instinctively I feel that W and I are not "done" I have had this feeling for about a week now that there's going to come a point when she does want to work on things. I think there's for sure a chance she will change her mind. Even in the last few days her attitude and actions surrounding me have changed.

I'm not sure what else I can be doing, like the book says try something for a period of time and see if it's working and so far it seemed like it was working?

I've been doing my GAL activities, I've continued to see our MC alone and she is now my IC, I've 180d on a bunch of things (like the D I'm not fighting her on it but I'm not helping her either, the first thing I've said to her about it in over a month is about a mediator and that's purely financially motivated by me.) I went dark on July 21st. last week she started asking my friend about me at work and yesterday she contacted me. So I feel like that was working. I didn't act over eager to speak with her either last night or today. Just laid out the facts and tried to reiterate where I stand on "friendship".

I'm honestly not sure how much more I can do. I'm def open to suggestions...