Right, don't be friends. It makes it so easy for them. And it holds you back. Sounds like the D was a whim, and do you think there's any chance she might change her mind? Was your M deteriorating for some time or was this sudden? Might be time for the last resort technique? It sure would be nice to chat more about all this, with Hawk and Chees too.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
